Been talking via FB messages to a girl I used to know and now we are friends on FB and she is asking for money!
Well not outright but she is wanting me to offer by using sob stories!
I literally have a few quid as Dan is taking our card to get petrol on the way to work and I have a bus pass so am not needing to pay for bus and need to buy milk for my girl xx

If I asked everyone of my friends for a few quid I'd have a couple of hundred quid don't fall for it! Just say to here you know that feeling speech at this time of year.... Or bog off says pretty much the same ;D

If I asked everyone of my friends for a few quid I'd have a couple of hundred quid don't fall for it! Just say to here you know that feeling speech at this time of year.... Or bog off says pretty much the same ;D

I told her straight that if I could help I would. I spieled that Dan has our bank card and we don't keep cash in the house.
She soon went 'UI have to go to bed'

YOU GOT THE SAME FRIEND AS ME ? I BAILED MINE OUT BEFORE BUT SHE AINT LEARNED HER LESSON
I GOT THE WHOLE SOB STORY , KIDS BE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HER ,, DO I KNOW A WOMANS REFUGE ,,
I DO FEEL SO BAD BUT I JUST CANT DO IT

We were friends ages ago. I was stupid and paid for nights out etc.. we saw eachother reg. She was PG one day, miscarried the next and within days she was PG again! This went on for about 6 months or so. In the meantime I had 2 genuine misacrriages and a forced abortion ( threatened by my bf mum that is I kept baby she would kill me, and she is a very violent woman) and I decided that we couldn't be friends any longer . This was about 6 years ago approx.
To lie about that is sick and I couldn't bear to be around her. Stupid me was always there when SS pulled sob stories on me ( I swear they think of me as some sort of counsellor ) but she pulled the same stunts again after I gave her another chance. I was in deep depression by then.
We haven't seen eachother for years and I am making such progress. There has been no self harming or suicide attempts in 2 years. Thanks to being with Dan and having his support through everything x
FB brings people back into your life and while I am quite happy to be FB friends I habe still blocked her from seeing my pics on FB. Some of you may remember me talknig about her, She is the one that tells people her husband is a paedo then denies it when confronted about it. I am friends with her as I know she has issues but I have blocked my pics a precaution and have told her I don't put baby pics up.
Now on Dec 29 she wants me and Flick to go to her daughters birthday party - her daughter is getting adopted next year. Not an open one, SS have done it for the childs safety.
I have said to her that I don't know what we are doing on that day as I have to go to the crem over Christmas to see my Nan and my Mum.
I don't really have the guts to say to her that I am scared to take Flick to the party in case her 'husband' is a paedo. She is a compulsive liar